It sounds as if your gut is waving a red flag at you, Leah. And as if your H has jumped pretty quickly into wanting you to be a 'fixer' (was this a pattern in your M?)
Maybe break down the issues and look at the priorities for YOU irrespective of what he wants. All the wisdom here seems to suggest that keeping some detachment and going slow is key.
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
