On Wednesday he texted my kids and said I'd like to see you this afternoon. They did not respond per usual so he bullied them via text until my daughter said they had plans. He said how was I supposed to know that when no one tells me anything. She said why don't you think about why we don't want to respond to your texts. He said you need to focus on the future and stop bringing up the past. Then he stopped communicating with them until Saturday and left in a huff from a planned outing with my S when he showed up 1/2 hour early and we had left the house for a showing. He never did see my D before she left for college.
In October when I told him that he was abandoning his children and destroying his relationship with them and he probably wouldn't hear from them until they were adults he said that was fine, he could wait until they were free of my noxious influence.
They don't mean these things. They don't remember what they say. She will come around again. I know it hurts on behalf of your girls, but she is sick. No mother in her right mind would behave this way.
I'm sorry you had to be reminded of what this does to them.
