Thank you all for the insight. I did not respond and am heading to bed. I hope some of the vets will be able to read over the last 5 hours of my life and provide more ways to approach this.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1