So since our outing on Saturday the W has reached every day by phone no R talk just talking about the days activities and some of the thinks the kids are up to.
We seem to be moving forward in small steps. the w also is planning and doing more with the kids. she is planning a family dinner i think sometimes she is testing herself.
i quickly thank people for there advise. I truly think if i hadn't heeded SOME of the advise by the people on this site i would be in a lot darker placed right now...
I still make stupid mistakes but god the number i could have made if i had not been on here reading.