Both times we fell right into the honeymoon stage and it was incredible. Awesome sex, dancing, exploring new places. We were like two teeanagers in heat.
The problem is that the honeymoon period doesn't last and the issues reappear, like clock work.
You need to be VERY honest with yourself. Have the issues that drove you apart been resolved? It's so easy to start justifying things in your mind and stop looking at the negatives because you just want to feel loved again. Pain free and back in love.
I did this twice and both times ended up here. We still had the same issues.
I'm pulling for you, Leah. Just be very cautious with your feelings and try to keep them in check. Because if you are anything like me, it's so easy to convince myself that things will be different.
Hamg in there, I see some positives in your sitch!