Yes! I wish Sandi would drop by instantaneously. I have wished that in the past. I echo what J said. I would say basically text a version of what J said - I don't believe dissolution is the solution to our marital problems. But I love and respect you and won't stand in the way of your decision.
Hopefully one of the vets can weigh in soon. You don't have to message her tonight so take a breather.
