Quote: good DBing is to find ways to draw each other closer as you stand up for yourself! ... and you have become really good at that!
Another wonderful example today!
Don't fret that you got anxious. That OK and totally understandable. The above is still new territory for you as you are still experimenting to find what works, so until you become more comfortable with knowing what works, being anxious comes with the territory.
Maybe recognizing that H was more than likey just as anxious as you were about the prediciment he had placed himself in might help ease you in that you were not alone with experiencing the emotion. In time PnB, as you continue to achieve positive outcomes from these trials, you will become more comfortable and confident in your new found techniques to receive what you ask for while along continue to move closer to each other.
