What to Do?

[LH19]

How about "W thank you for coming by and signing the papers, but next time could you ask first if it is ok for you to drop by"?

[chris19]

Just got this from my wife.

I'm going to file for a dissolution and I'll drop off the key then

[chris19]

UPDATE....

Wow, today [censored]....
W - I'm going to file for a dissolution and i'l drop the key then; so it wont happen again.
W - If you wanna talk anout it we can but you've made it clear to me the last two weeks that you're ok to move forward, so I'm done thinking about it and crying over it.
W - Ok Then..



PLEASE HELP....

[Maika]

Hey Chris. Sit tight. Don't send any text to her yet. I want to write a response. Just sit tight. Don't panic. I'm in the middle of something and will write back. Maybe someone else will chime in soon

[TBSakaJ9]

Chris....did u send her the text about not coming in to the apt without letting u know? If so, was this how she responded?

[chris19]

Yes; this was her response.

[TBSakaJ9]

I can only share what my DB coach told me to say.......I don't believe that is the solution to our marital issues however due to the love and respect I have for you I will set you free. See if anyone else will weigh in, usually 1 of the vets is lurking.

[chris19]

Joseph. I have expressed that too her already; I assume she is saying this now because I have been practicing NC/dark over the past two weeks.

[TBSakaJ9]

Prob so just sit tight you will get some great advice soon.........we need Sandi stat!

[EastTN]

Chris, you did well not to respond. Leave it that way. You've being trolled here. She knows you still want her, and this is manipulation. "Well, sorry, but since you don't want me anymore I'm not going to cry" is just her trying to make you feel like you've "missed your chance" and keep you attached.

Don't let her do that to you. Wait it out.