Do I need to say anything about her showing up? Do I need to set that boundary right now? Like "please next time you are thinking about coming over let me know; so I am not surprised" or something like that?
Absolutely you need to set a boundary that she calls first before coming over!
I understand. She did try to text me letting me know she was at the leasing office. But I had not yet responded to those messages. I was vacuuming and before I knew it she walked right in the door. If I were to say something; just set the boundary by asking her to call first or telling her to call first? And explain if not I feel like I do not have my own space at the moment?
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
