Apparently she did talk to my cousin and this is part of what she said

We've been through this a few times before and it really is over. We're not compatible. I 100% believe this is the right thing to do. I will always love him, and the the best for him, and will do everything he needs from me as the kid's mom. I'm not a drama person, so I think and feel we're moving through this the best we can.

Married 9: Together 11
M:37 W:35
S:2 D:7
Bomb dropped 6/3/2017
W moved out 7/1/2017
Separation Filed: 8/1/2017
Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017
Divorced: 10/5/2017