Hey 25 no problem on the adultery tangent. I think Louisiana is just the standard deal when it comes to that. I highly doubt these other states ever prosecute these misdemeanors anyway. I'm no longer interested in fighting and retribution. She is always wondering what someone says/thinks so I'm willing to bet her guilt is paying her back for me.

This was/is the only affair. Unless you know something I don't???? lol.

That divorce care is helping a lot. The face to face interaction is a huge advantage. Be nice if this board had something like that. I can talk to people who are in the same exact situation and know I'm not alone. Heck my case sounds like nothing compared to the others. One lady in there was married 50 years and her H left her for another woman. The class has roughly 10 people and I'm the only guy but I'll take what I can get!


M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year
T 7 Years

Wife left October 2016
Affair began August 2016

Me 31 years old
Wife 29 years old