Kids are a handful but as my W repeatedly pointed out to me it is of no good to blow your top with them . I avoided quoting her though!!
This holiday was no different to others recently. I guess it is less interesting to me to live that way. It is not full.
As for how long it has been, the rule is simple I never brought it up. Sounds easy but not. So now she has kind of brought it up, so I thought it worth mentioning.
Best wishes
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together