I just keep telling myself I can only control myself and just go about my business.
That's right. We all learn the hard way just how much we have no control of our spouses.
I can't believe how they can go out and be seen in public together like that, somewhere that people know them. Surely there are laws against adultery in Louisiana, that they would fear as well.
Most states do not have a statute against adultery, about 21 have it &usually it's a misdemeanor. (States very rarely treat as a crime, however.)
However it's grounds for divorce in most states that are not no fault. The legal reality is that once a couple is separated, family law judges tend to treat relationships with OPs as a private matter or something the judge won't address.
I'm not defending that, just saying that it's reality.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016