We have to remind ourselves, gently if possible, that the options presented to us are
NOT
1) a good marriage with our stbx spouse
versus a
2) horrid divorce.
Our real option is HOW to handle the divorce that is going forward in a healthy way,
or pretending it's not,
which puts at risk, our financial security and a whole, healed heart.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
