Alone and Confused (Not so Angry) 2

[woundedfool]

So my wife accused me of joining dating sites and meeting up with women well on business trips. I believe this goes back to the fact she found history of porn site on computer and a dating site link would come on the screen.

Just saying this for perspective, but if I was her, in that circumstance, It would have created some doubt in my mind as well. So when you are accused of it, or if its replayed again. Try validating from her perspective. Think: "I now understand how that made you feel"

So to make things clear my wife is a very good looking women im am average guy that traded upmwhen it comes to my wife. Although the DB diet has been very good to me down 82 lbs since January. So wasn't so average when it came to weight. I compare us to the actors in King of Queens.

Sorry for the armchair psychology:
How do you feel about your own self image? I ask because of the above traded up/average line as well as, when I gave you the 180 speedo idea, you totally brushed it off in a humorous way (I detect a defense kicking in)?

My GAL activities mostly road trips on my bike some last minute shopping for school. Have even benn working out because lets face it when you lose 80 plus pounds that starts making you feel good about yourself.

Good on GAL's but keep expanding your horizons.