I don't have time to post much, but I wanted to hit on a point you made that is VERY significant.. That he works with OW.

Any chance of that changing in the very near future? Personally it would be a deal breaker for me, but it definitely presents extra challenges if it continues if you do decide to move forward.

Whatever you decide to do moving forward, I would suggest you really take your time to decide, don't be in a hurry to commit to him, really work through it on your own for now, he will wait if he means it.


M - 9 1/2 years
5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA
10/31/16 - We sold house
01/10/18 - D Finalized