I'm done talking about the relationship. We had a conversation this morning and she informed me that she still has feelings for a boyfriend she broke up with when she was 17th and for herself she has to figure out what's going on there. This is the OM. She still hasn't asked for a divorce or asked to move out. She is looking for a job to get her finances together so she can get an apartment or house.
Life is crazy. She tells me I had a chance to close off old relationships. She using my old relationships as reference points. I wonder if she could ever turn her heart back towards me. She informed me she can't think of any good or great times between us over the last 7 years.
I don't know what my approach should be at this point. I can see myself moving on, but I think I have to detach better. She tells me she her heart isn't in the marriage, but she doesn't move out. Sometimes I get the thought that I should just let her go figure out that this guy isn't for her. But that's for her to figure out.
This guy cheated on her when they were in high school and has been divorce twice. I like the thought of eventually and not soon.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.