Hey AS it sure does feel good! Been going to this divorce class on Sundays and it puts it in perspective nicely. I've been idolizing W and her mood and behavior was directly correlated to how I feel. So I figured if I don't know how she feels and is up to then I can 100% focus on me. When she was sad I was happy and vice versa. Crazy to think someone could be happy that someone was sad.
Wsh, yeah it is crazy but where they live I may know 10 people. As I thought about it more, she really didn't have many friends and the ones she told have done it themselves. Also, LA doesn't have any weird laws on adultery except if I wanted to I could ask for at fault divorce. We already meet criteria for no-fault so I guess that's moot. At this point even if they had some crazy laws I think my desire for retribution is gone. If it comes to D I would just sign the no-fault deal and call it a day. Our W-2s were 1 grand apart last year, house was already mine, she has all her things so it may be the simplest D ever.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
