It's understandable that we all get to the point of just being tired of the drama really. Don't know if it's apathy, but the person we knew is invisible really, so it's just dealing with the crappy fallout. And few sane people would get excited and skippy about that kind of admin!
I think we initiate things or deal with them when we feel strong enough to do so. Most of our spouses then add an extended period of inactivity before they throw a few odd spanners in, don't they? and by then, our mindset is different or we're dealing with other stuff. It is frustrating.
What's the anxiety about?
Me: 53 H:38 T:20 M:14 BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression S 1/16 PA 4/16 H filed 1/17
