Maika, thank you for that well spelled out example. Very insightful.

I have a situation that I wanted to bring here first before I contacted W. B/C she moved out, I need to re-sign at my leasing office for our old apartment; problem is I need my W signature on the lease itself or on this one page document which allows her out of the lease. I need to get the ball rolling on locking myself in the new lease; but I am not sure how to contact my W. It will be the first time we have texted in 7 days.

Any ideas?




In other news; I have been reading and learning the DR (7Steps) and had a few questions. Chapters 1&2 I understand; beginners mind; and know what you want. When it comes to Chapter 3 (asking for what you want) and Chapter 4 (Determine more of the same); are these items I can accomplish at the moment due to the fact we are physically separated and hardly communicating?

Last edited by Cadet; 08/31/17 01:51 AM. Reason: Combine posts
M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1