A familiar story with questions. III

[RR17]

Sandi, Did you finish?

It all makes sense when you are reading it and yes I did read DR book.

I understand that the LRT, Sandi's rules are not intended to be used forever and I'm assuming that I am not the only one that struggles to know when piecing begins. I have been told that I expected too much too soon.

Fact is, I saw results very quickly. I am not sure if we reconciled. On the surface, we may have, but I still have a lot of unanswered questions. I don't want to seem controlling, yet I feel someone has to captain this ship. Just pleasant interactions with surface only conversations. She is respectful and appears to be trying.

For nearly 2 weeks now W acts like nothing ever happened. No BDs, no talk of D.
I think that she believes that breaking down and offering up that she had been through a lot recently was an adequate explanation.
I don't feel that way. She seems to process thing much slower than I do.

I'm looking for piecing (as I understand it), but she doesn't seem to be heading there. She seems perfectly satisfied staying where we are right now.

I need some closure or at least an idea of where she is.

Without other advice, I believe that I will suggest that we have a talk. Otherwise, I don't believe that she will ever initiate one.

I remember reading that I may have to wait for a long time until she is ready. That is why I have continued to use the techniques.
Am I doing it all wrong?