25 - does make sense. absolutely. I don't expect my STBXH to return. Or even to explain WTF happened. Tbh, I'm not sure I would even have the energy to think about the incredibly hard work of piecing even if I'm wrong and he did!

Detaching & NC is about my sanity and survival, not about my H or M. Just a way to get through the inevitabilities of the D stuff without taking more hits than I need to.


Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17