Hey there DBR's... how goes?? Still no word from WW (or STBXW now) and I am perfectly OK with that. I only want to hear from her if she is telling she filed. I feel like 1000 pounds have been lifted off me... time to live life!

So I have been thinking a bit about what to do with myself, to get out of that comfort zone. Came up with a few ideas. I am def going to do the Ju Jit Su once they change the class time for winter. I will also take new classes at my gym. But I don't think these count as getting me out of my comfort zone. Anything physical probably does not count. But I'll get to meet some new people!

I am also thinking of taking a few graduate level courses in biomedical engineering. That is the field I want to enter (it's proving tough!). But I went to school forever already so that does not count either.

So I think I have these three that are a bit different:

1. Dancing. Sotto I did like that idea and am seriously considering it. I think it would be fun. Maybe swing dancing...hmmmm... I'll have to see if I can find a class geared towards singles. I am a terrible dancer but I have fun!

2. Cooking course. Never realized what a terrible cook I was until my brother bunked with me the past two weeks as he waits for his apartment. I eat to just eat.. so bland... ugh. I doubt any future mrs pinn is going to like that. wonder how easy it would be find this for singles.

3. I always wanted to really learn spanish. So I might look around for some local classes there.

Any thoughts on those?

Oh and Pax I thought about your little accomplishment suggestion and it came to me today. So embarrassing but I live in a rather small town so never really have the need to parallel park and really don't know how. So that is the short term goal haha! (my gym has spots I can use for this)

Other good news is that we are going rock climbing at an indoor gym next week for work! I always wanted to try that so I'll be able to check that off. If I like it, maybe I'll see if there is one around locally.

I have the get together at my house this weekend. Should be good. Only problem is that it is already getting cool making my pool almost un-useable....boooo :-(

I am thinking it might be time to change my gym. I usually do about every 2 years anyway. My gym is not focused to my age group (much older) haha. I definitely will not be meeting anyone there.

I am just starting to slowly poke my head out into this new world (and what a world it is!). I want this next relationship to be great. Time to live life!