Your right, I will put that energy into S13 and myself. Got some things in mind that I plan on doing to eliminating the problem, which is my W.
OwnIt and EastTN,
Going to look that up right away and see if that is an option for me. I seriously need to do something to protect myself at this point. Because the feeling of having to protect myself is giving W my energy. And things were starting to go well until the last month. Then contact with OM picked up again. Which led onto all the plotting on her part.
But on another note, S13 had his first IC tonight. W in trifling fashion dropped him off with me, then left for a party. This damn woman couldn't take 1 hour for the first session. Which upset the counsellors as well. S13 gave all the political correct answers and obviously didn't want to be there. While alone IC told me to just keep an eye on him and don't expect a thing from W.
She told that having any expectation from W would only drive me crazy. So in a nutshell, expect nothing. Even if W says she will do it. Hard to believe that my W has become so worthless, just like MIL. And that's what IC had warned me about for months. That W was reverting back to what she grew up around. IC says that W clearly can no longer cover up who she really is, so just protect myself and S13. That was hard to hear, but I'm going to take that advice and get away from W. Starting with changing these locks in a day or so.
