So my wife accused me of joining dating sites and meeting up with women well on business trips. I believe this goes back to the fact she found history of porn site on computer and a dating site link would come on the screen.
So to make things clear my wife is a very good looking women im am average guy that traded upmwhen it comes to my wife. Although the DB diet has been very good to me down 82 lbs since January. So wasn't so average when it came to weight. I compare us to the actors in King of Queens.
When she started to shut down and just sleep for hours with major hot flashes and many other strange things the acusations started coming fast and furious. My fix was to push her to do more with me. Big mistake it only pushed her fast to the door.
She still has same behavior at her parents place work then sleep long hours alone in a room.
This is why when she makes the effort to join us for activities i dont know how i should detach.
I quess if i control how things end and have things planned it is more her joining our activities i am the controling factor. She can come or not it doesnt change what we are doing as a family.
My GAL activities mostly road trips on my bike some last minute shopping for school. Have even benn working out because lets face it when you lose 80 plus pounds that starts making you feel good about yourself.
And of course reading and visiting every marriage saver site on the net.
