I really don't know if my responses were appropriate, but it's clear that there's a bit of a power shift happening. She's feeling overwhelmed and guilty,
Yeah I think your responses were great, excellent validation! As for her feeling overwhelmed and guilty, absolutely. They all feel that way. She still feels JUSTIFIED though, and that she is doing the right thing. The guilt will come out at times like that but don't confuse it with interest in reconciling. Your response was exactly what it should have been! Nice job!
