This attempt at detaching has been so far so good. I quit stalking altogether, not even a peep. Been busy with work and all my other activities as the herniated disk deal has mostly healed. Funny story and I probably handled this wrong but its still funny. Me and two other guys went eat and drink some beer at a local downtown restaurant two Saturdays ago. As we were walking out, boom there's my W and OM walking his dog. We crossed paths and we all stopped. All in disbelief as we finally meet face to face. Never seen this guy except on FB and he only had pics of their faces. W said hey in a nervous voice and I stopped and looked at OM. Looked at him up then down then down then up. I pointed at him and looked at her and said this is the guy you left me for? Your joking right? Surprisingly I had no anger and we just walked off after that.
Since that day W has asked me to do several things and I had to decline due to other obligations. She has not directly addressed that day yet but she keeps saying she is depressed and nothing is going her way. I wanted to say something rude but I just say I'm sorry and leave it at that. I been harping and griping about her soon to be cruise with OM on our anniversary but surprisingly I'm ok with most everything now. I just keep telling myself I can only control myself and just go about my business.
M 1.5 years, her affair was before 1 year T 7 Years
