Alright, so W never showed up to the house last night to discuss finances and what steps do we plan on taking. Never even bothered to call and say she wasn't showing up. So how do I handle this one?
Whatever steps you wanted to discuss with her, go ahead and proceed with them. If she complains just point out to her that you tried to discuss it with her and she wasn't available.
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At this point, I'm about to have no place to live when I have to get rid of this house. W continues this behaviour, because all I can do is shrug it off. Hell, I can't even afford to get a divorce. So I'm stuck dealing with this nonsense, while my W walks around without a care in the world.
Look, I get it. You hate your wife. You hate the position she has put you in. You want your revenge. You know what the best revenge is? It's not "telling on her" on FB or writing letters to OM's family or whatever, that just makes you look like a bigger tool than your W or OM. The best revenge is THRIVING. It's YOU putting your life back together in spectacular fashion. It's YOU making yourself the happiest MF'er they've ever seen. It's YOU getting out and getting a life and finding success in adversity. It's YOU not giving a flying sh** that she's with OM or twenty OM's, because you're too busy living your awesome life to care. DO THAT.
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The craziest part is that W can still take the craziness to the next level. At this point, I'm dealing with more than the A. I have to deal with my very survival. Because it seriously feels like W is trying to destroy me, while coming by with this fake smile and concern.
The only power your W has over you is what you give her. Right now you're giving her all the power over you. Time to take it back.
