Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 5

[Treasur]

We were the same with joint a/cs and always very transparent together about money.

Unfortunately last year, my H started removing thousands from our joint a/c "because he needed it".... please focus on you and S13, it's not being spiteful, just practical and you can give her the opportunity to share in the discussion. But have a plan for if she doesn't.

And if she is seeing someone else, even if he's paying for swanky dinners etc, your W will be spending money on new clothes, hairdos etc....