Thanks for that advice. I thought about just leaving her out of everything of possible and doing things myself. Regardless if it was against what she would want. But I didn't want to come off as being spiteful. But I will W the opportunity. And if she fails to show, then I make a decision based on what I deem to be beat for everyone. But mainly myself and S13.
As far as the money, everything is joint. And we unfortunately need to keep it tjis way to pay bills and survive. This is a big reason why I wanted to have this financial talk last night. Odds are that maybe was with some man last night. But that is just an assumption, so I won't dwell on that.
