The thing is she was at breaking point. I didn't interfer with that accept keeping the boys out of her hair. And instead of pulling further away she asked for more from me.
I don't know how much W accepts responsability but she is still self focused so you are probably right. Secondly the boys have been frustrating.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
