Also, just to confirm and ask for an opinion. If should would contact me with something to the effect of... "Why haven't you called", or ..."are you just not going to talk to me", or something to the nature of her getting upset because I have not contact her - what would be the best course of action (or things to say)?
The goal of that conversation would be to address her understanding and frustration; but also to explain D is not the road I would like to take.
Secondly - Does anybody have a great Co-dependent/Co-dependency book relevant to my situation? Taking a backseat in my relationship, being passive, etc.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
