Wife Wants to Leave Marriage 5

[Treasur]

Tread, I've had (have) a lot of this with my STBXH. No idea why they do it.

Breathe....then accept that doing thing collaboratively is unlikely to work (because your W has currently lost most of her grown-up marbles). Look at the financial stuff yourself. Make a plan. Tell her what it is and give her a deadline for coming up with better or that's what you'll do. This is about survival for you and your family unfortunately. Be fair (but not too fair) and limit your W's access to money because you can't trust her currently (probably) to be responsible or think about anyone else's needs but hers.

I'm sorry. I know it's tough.