In my experience, my W is not one to embrace the concept of Closure.

I don't believe she will ever seek Piecing and for me to initiate that R conversation it would require pursuing.

So, for now, we are just pleasant.

Isn't a guideline, a rule? Don't you either follow them or not?
Perhaps I am missing something.

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.