24 Mths in..I gotta whole lot of living to do now

[Irish M]

so a short reply from my XW today on my invite to meet up after 2 years.

Yes, definitely. I know i have done bad things to you and I regret it. And I understand if you want to see me before bringing the girls into it. I'm available anytime. just let me know.

now I get this message today. days after i sent the question. Its her normal reply to anything. Weekend is never reply , only answer doing work when she is away from OM .

she added.

We can meet Wednesday after-work and this address coffee ship.My dad is struggling.He is still hanging in there. He is now completely deaf. Has trouble speaking and knows his time is up soon. I will see him all day Friday.
I downloaded music for my dad. hope he can listen to them.
I hope your parents are well.

I replied yes sure. Wednesday sounds great. Lets see in the next 2 days what happens // if those plans change.

No expectations and I don't want her back. Once I meet her and feel she is safe.. the girls can go if the so choose to meet her in a similar public location.