I heard from everyone in my life how much they couldn't stand him the second he was gone, I was clueless. In my recent conversation with OW1, who was his attending in residency and then worked in the same ICU with him and remains connected to many of his coworkers, that there are many people who can't stand him, think he is fake, do not trust him, and that there is a sexual harassment issue that prevented him from returning to the hospital where he did his residency (I predicted that would be part of his future, but was too foolish to realize it had already occurred). We are too busy projecting the people we want them to be onto them that we don't see them for who they are as others do.
