That requires that she feels she may lose you. That's the only "wake up" call she may have. I happen to think she is conflicted and maybe even wants you to fight for her.
Especially if she's seen complacency from you in the past.
If she is conflicted and may "want me to fight for her"; how is this possible with me being dark?
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1