What to Do?

[chris19]

Thank you for the comments and thoughts; reading this helped me understand slightly more.

And btw, How can she buy a home on her own?

We scouted homes and found one we really loved; and in the market of the city we live in we had to pounce. We agreed she would purchase the house, and if we worked out I would move in. I signed a POA for the mortgage; so I am not responsible financially for the home. This also was part of the separation; she moved out, and I am still in our apartment.

I have many of friends I am still in contact with. This defiantly helps my situation.