Neither of you has said you want to reconcile, let alone taken steps towards it. In fact, your wife has seen a lawyer. And you both merely said you are not going to file soon.
So you are not in piecing.
You are in the "I hope we can reconcile" phase. She's on the fence. From your wording to her, written here, seems you are too.
Is this^^^ an accurate, albeit succinct, recap?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
