What to Do?

[chris19]

Thank you for the pointers on social media. I understand it really; no body said it was going to be easy. It is crazy to think about even though she is the WAS...I am the desperate one. She is the one that got involved in a EA(possibly PA)...why I am the one who feels so bad. Probably because I have taken the back seat for so long; and let her walk over me. I am more angry with myself for failing as a husband and losing my sense of boundaries and self-promotion.

I wish I knew all of this stuff that I do now having read the DR and DB books along with all the threads on this site. I just hope its not too late. I really do want us to work out. But it is time for me to detach; go dark, and GAL.