I have not once checked H's Facebook (or the OWs). God knows I have heard enough of it to last a lifetime.
To me, it sounds like H is either incredibly oblivious (impression management to validate his choice to blow up our family without a thought about how it would feel to me or our kids or how it would look to our mutual friends who didn't even know we were separated)
or deliberately cruel to me and our marriage/family.
I'm not interested in either of these^^^scenarios being in my life. And I'm not renting out anymore space to h in my head/heart.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016