I know how hard NC is, it's extremely painful to surrender to.
I've done NC for months at a time, and each time W came poking back around just like she is doing now.
You have to make her feel like she is losing you. You can't make her feel this if you are inviting her out and reaching out to her. And you can't trick her either, you have to actually begin taking steps to move on without her. Ironically, this is what will possibly bring her back.
There are no shortcuts - I've tried and tried to find a quick fix but there is none. It doesn't exist.
Once you start to accept ^ that, you will start to feel more detached but it takes a while and I won't lie, it hurts like hell.
Trust me, she knows how you feel. And if she is a WAW, every time you tell her you miss her or don't want a D, she will actually feel repulsed by you and it sets you back even further from your goal.
Hang in there, it gets easier but definately takes time.
