Well, where to start? I suppose a quick summary so no one has to read all the previous posts?
Oct 2015, xW disappeared with the kids (S10 & D9 at the time), files an OFP. Claims I raped her, and kids weren't safe with me, and only supervised visitation with the kids. Managed to get every other weekend unsupervised, agreed to the OFP, volunteered she could have the house during this time. I moved in with my parents.
I tried to work things out regardless of her crazy claims (hard with an OFP in place!)
December 2015, I had enough and filed for D.
Finalized D May 2016.
I starting seeing new GF June 2016, a girl I was great friends with from 3rd grade through high school.
Slowly worked in a few more days with the kids over that year.
Back in my house July 2016. xW took WAY more than she should have.
Still tried to open a line of communication. Finally started "coparenting counseling" in Sept 2016. Didn't go well, absolutely no remorse from xW. The counselor was terrible, I had to essentially do his job for him.
OFP expired Oct 2016.
My employer permanently closed Oct 2016.
May 2017, went back to mediation, got my time with kids up to 50%.
May 2017, I M'd GF.
June 2017, the news about S12 ...to be continued....
