not sure if this heads to another thread but I'll post a quick note here.
glad to see the dynamic shift. But men have a harder time living alone (and I share your fondness for it, btw. It's a surprise for me but it's true. I like parts of being alone to the point where I'm not sure I'd live with a man again for a long time, if ever)
BUT if you are considering a recon - down the road - won't the distance issue need to be addressed?
Because no matter what he says or does or thinks or feels, the long distance took a toll on the m.
Believe me, I relate. While I was faithful, I don't think h was - and he sure wasn't at the end.
Another thing I know now is that I do not want a long distance r with anyone, if it's more than a few months. Why would I? I just left a long distance marriage in which I was lonely more than I realized.
Just saying it would probably be more appealing to you both, for it to work well, if you know there was a light at the end of that tunnel.
War Eagle!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
