I haven't been on the site recently (out GAL) but just checked in to see how you were doing.
I'm so glad the visit went well. I can understand the mixed feelings and the hurt. Just go very easy on yourself.
I will say that the power dynamic has very clearly shifted, and I'm thrilled about that. I think with men, especially, it's so important to remember that we are the prize and let them pursue us.
He was pursuing pretty hard. That boundary you set may have him backing off a bit, though. Don't take it personally.
