She had told me a few times before she would never leave, and would rather stay trapped in a loveless marriage if it came to it, than to walk out the door and divorce. She does not believe in divorce. I know that it is extremely painful for her. Hence why I think she is erasing.
Yes and I am sure that is how she felt at the time. Now she feels like she wants a divorce and maybe her feelings will change again. You seem to be doing an awful lot of mind reading.
My point is you are still really early in the process, divorce takes a really long time and things can change. I can tell you this, if you try to talk, guilt or nice you way out of this she is going to want to get away even more.
She moved out really quickly, there is most likely an OM. Do you know who it is?
