But TBH, they will never be what they 'could' be, had W decided to work it out, and they grew up in a loving 2 parent household.
JMSTL,
What if your wife said "you know what you are right, this isn't fair to the children. I am not happy, but I am going to stay in this marriage for the next 20 years until are youngest is an adult". Would you be ok with that? Could you live like that for the next 20 years?
