Not sure what else to do

[Jmstl]

Joseph,

Thanks. I don't blame W. I do not disparage her at all, and frequently talk her up to the kids. I know she does the same for me. We have agreed to not disparage each other at all. To insult W, is to insult the children. They are part her.

I am enjoying the time to myself, doing things I want to do. But at the same time, I am lonely. A lot of what I want to do, and do, are the same things W is doing. And so I find myself saying, "why can't we just do X together"