One of my favorite quotes... "Sorry I can't hear you, your actions are too loud."
Have you spoken to her yet? As of the time of this post, her behavior is pretty telling, yes?
I don't know the dynamics so I can't infer or mind read, but there could be a million reasons for her being silent. Both positive and not so positive.
Naw still haven't heard from here but I did not expect to. This is par for the course... when shes off... shes off. Like I said, been through this many times. Usually means one thing. I have no desire to talk to her anyway. As you could probably tell, I have been pretty cold the past year towards her. Sometimes, honestly, I would be like ugh... we have to hang out tonight. This relationship is over, there is no coming back. 20 years of this and I have had enough. She's a selfish, cheating, liar who I cannot trust on multiple different levels. But enough of that negativity!
Originally Posted By: Pax_luv
Good for you to decompress and be still for a bit! And yes, go nuts with GALing! It's fun! Haha.
I love that you planned a Labor Day party! Enjoy the mt Washington hike. When are you going to do that?
Also, I would encourage you to do something you always wanted to do/experience and just go for it! Have fun. Say yes to experiences. That's what I do even if I put myself waaaaay outside if my comfort zone. Yesterday, I went to a pool party with some gym peeps. It was one of those Vegas style pool parties which I outgrew 12 years ago. But I sucked it up and went and had THE BEST time. Normally I would tell myself that I am Benjamin button.... I'm a 60 year old trapped in a 33 year old body, but after 2 vodka sodas (I'm a lightweight) I'm reminded that age is just a number and it's ok to be out of your comfort zone. So I ended up chatting it up with the 20-something shirtless trainers. Meh-could be worse! Haha. But enough about me.....
That is so weird!! Holy crap. So I got a message from my sister in law's best friend (we are all good friends) to go to her uncle's house for a party. Most of the group couldn't go, but I was immediately like heck yea! I got my brother and another friend to go. Anyway, we are driving there and the houses are getting more and more fancy... we turn on the street and all the homes were multi million dollar like mansions! This house was ridic with a crazy back yard pool. It was like a movie! Crazy lights, music, food, pet rabbits came out at some point. I was sitting there and was just thinking, this is amazing! So sounds like we had a similar weekend!
Originally Posted By: Pax_luv
What's something you've always wanted to do and accomplish that you never really did for whatever reason? It can be small too... Doesn't have to be major.
So I think this Ju Jit Su thing is what I am going to do. I talked to some folks there and seems like it is a pretty tight group. Should be good. And hopefully Mt Washington soon. Signed up for two halfs but I have already done a bunch of those (that ten mile run was not fun this morning after yesterday!).
Pax, I know our time here is going to become less and less. I hope we find a way to keep in touch. No one knows my situation better than the people here, no one.
