Most or all of your questions hinge on what stage you are in.
I don't know what stage we are in. That would require a R talk which I am not pursuing.
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Please recap what your wife and you have actually said you each want now.
The only thing said by each is that neither is pursuing filing right now.
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Several of us have told you this but you tend to dismiss or deflect our feedback on this. You tell us we misunderstand you or that we don't know you or your wife - which is a given. We only know what you write and how you react and whatever our own experiences are here. I hope you can take in what we write rather than trying to "correct" us.
(That ^^tendency might be worth exploring, btw.)
I believe I have only corrected when I believe that the understanding of the turn of events was not accurate. Not the advice.
Sorry if you feel your advice has been fought.
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
